Friday, November 30, 2012

Mandy is 7!!!!

My beautiful little girl is 7 years old today.  It is hard to believe how quickly she has grown up.  There are so many things to love about her, but here are 7 to name a few:

1. Sassy, sassy, sassy.  She can stick out her hip and snap her fingers with the best of them.

2. Loves to give hugs.  All the time.  It’s fantastic!

3. Super smart.  I’m still amazed that she memorized all 13 articles of faith before turning 7!!!

4. Is very excited about everything.  If you are not feeling enthused about something, just tell Mandy about it.  She’ll get excited for you!

5.  Has a very tender and thoughtful disposition.

6.  Is very eager to please and do what is right.

7. When she puts her mind to something, she can do it!

Happy Birthday Mandy girl!

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Thursday, November 29, 2012

Goat Day and Visiting with Uncle Cliff

Back home, they have a festival every year known as Goat Day.  Essentially it is just a craft fair with a goat petting area. 


In addition to petting goats, they have lots of activities for the kids to do.  Like jumpy houses and slides,


pony rides,


a coin dig,




and an animal show.


After playing at Goat Day, we headed over to visit with Uncle Cliff and pet the horses.


There was a tree stand out there and they all wanted to climb up to it.  However, none of them made it that high :)


It was a beautiful and very fun day!


Tuesday, November 13, 2012


Dallin has never been the greatest of students.  School is just not something that he is enthused about.  I mean he does ok.  Just not as good as I know he has the potential to do.  A couple months ago, we had a week or two where he was forgetting to write down homework assignments, forgetting to bring stuff home that he needed for his homework, forgetting to turn stuff in at school, and so on almost everyday.  I am sure all kids do it a little bit, but it felt like it was getting out of hand to me. 

So I went searching for some ideas of how to help him.  I came across a book called Smart but Scattered.  It approached helping children get organized, remember important things, do better at school, etc. by helping children learn the root skills needed to accomplish those things.  The authors referred to those skills as “executive skills”.  Skills such as response inhibition, working memory, emotional control, sustained attention, task initiation, time management, planning, and organization.  They provided questionnaires to help determine what skills your child is lacking in and ideas for improving those skills.

One section of the book that I really liked provided some ideas for incentives and check lists for helping your kids have a successful day.  And so, about 6 weeks ago, we implemented morning, afternoon, and evening check lists or “routines” for the kids to do. 


I set the alarm on my phone to go off at 7:30 every morning, 4:00 each afternoon, and 7:30 each evening.  Now after weeks of doing this, every time the kids hear the alarm they know it is time to start one of their routines.  If I have to remind them multiple times to do items on the list they get a mark on their chart.  They can also receive marks on their chart if we ask them to do something not on their chart and have to ask them more than once.  They can also receive a mark for bad behavior (I think the threat of a mark has now eclipsed time out as being more effective!).  I laminated all the charts and we are using dry erase markers to write on them– works really well!

Their routines are all very similar, but do have a few variations.  Layton’s is a little shorter and I included pictures to help him remember what each step is:


For areas that they are assigned to clean, there is a check list posted in that room to help them remember what they have to do:


If they go the whole day without a mark, they can get a star on their chart.


When they get 10 stars, they can choose a prize from the prize box.


I think one of the nicest benefits that I have seen so far with this system is that we allow them to get a mark erased by doing something nice for someone else in the family.  The result has been a surprising number of “nice” deeds being reported to me even when they don’t have a mark on their chart to be erased. 

I know it seems a little complicated, but it really seems to be working.  Since we have implemented it, Dallin has only forgotten to write down his homework assignment once which is a huge improvement.  He also seems to be taking school more seriously.  I have also noticed improvements with Layton and Mandy.  The threat of getting a mark on their chart is VERY serious to them.  I have also noticed improvements in their cleaning skills!  And they are all very much more aware of time and how long it takes them to do things.

The system isn’t perfect and I am thinking about changing a few of the steps in their routines, but for the most part I really like it.  It doesn’t work as well on weekends as it does on weekdays, but we’ll keep trying it.  The hardest part for me is remembering to go put a mark on their chart when I have to remind them of things.  I am lacking in a number of executive skills myself :)

Friday, November 9, 2012

Halloween Day

Halloween morning found a sick little Layton boy.  His nose was running and he had a yucky cough, so he didn’t get to go to his school party.


But even though he didn’t go to that, we did go up to the school to see the character parade.  I love that the teachers, resource teachers, and office staff all get into it too!


Mandy went as Aya the girl ninja in The Dragon’s Lair.


And Dallin was Percy Jackson from Percy Jackson and The Olympians: The Lightning Thief.  He is reading it this month for his book report.


We also saw Chloe there:


That night was the usual trick or treating:


And then candy overload!!!


I felt so bad for Mandy and Dallin this year.  Almost half of their candy they had to pick out of their piles and give away because with the wires in their mouths they aren’t allowed to eat anything that is really sticky, chewy, or too hard.  But they were able to still make it a good Halloween with all the chocolate they enjoyed :)

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Layton’s Field Trip to the Pumpkin Patch

On the Monday before Halloween, Layton and his very tiny class took a field trip to the pumpkin patch.


They took a ride in the wagon,


listened to a fun story,


decorated pumpkin cookies,


and played pin the nose on the pumpkin.


It was a very cute fun day!